One of the most difficult things about your man having an affair, apart from the enormous emotional stress, is getting the proof you need to challenge him. So many men who have affairs seem to be so good at covering it up, and if you confront him with your suspicions, he will probably be able to convince you that you’re wrong. This means that in future you may not have the confidence to mention it again. Even worse, there may be a chance that he’s NOT seeing someone else, so if you start making accusations without proof, you could damage a perfectly good relationship for no reason. So how do you get the proof?
Long ago, I was the victim of an affair. Fortunately I managed to rebuild my life, and am now happily married again, but I remember all too clearly the misery that it caused. The hardest thing was KNOWING he was cheating, but not being able to prove it. You have a slight advantage, because these days there’s a high-tech way of getting the proof you need. It’s called a Reverse Phone Search.
It’s common these days for people having affairs to communicate via mobile phones. One of the things you may notice is that your man is using his mobile more, and is paranoid about you answering it, or reading any text messages. I’ll be honest and say now that the hardest thing will be to get access to his phone. This may take time, and you’ll need to be patient, but when you get the opportunity, note down any unknown numbers that he’s been sending and receiving calls and texts to. Once you’ve done this, you use a Reverse Phone Search website.
These websites are really easy to use. You simply put the number you want to find out about in a box, hit the “Search” button, and in seconds you’ll have access to the name and address of the person who owns the number! Simple as that. With that information, you can either prove that your man is cheating, or put your mind at rest by finding out that his calls and texts are in fact innocent.
OK, you’re asking? How do I do it? Where do I find a reverse phone search website? The one I recommend is here: Reverse Phone Search. Just put the unknown number into the search box, and click the search button. Within seconds, you should find out if the number you need is available!