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Use a Reverse Phone Search to Prove He’s Cheating!

One of the most difficult things about your man having an affair, apart from the enormous emotional stress, is getting the proof you need to challenge him. So many men who have affairs seem to be so good at covering it up, and if you confront him with your suspicions, he will probably be able to convince you that you’re wrong. This means that in future you may not have the confidence to mention it again. Even worse, there may be a chance that he’s NOT seeing someone else, so if you start making accusations without proof, you could damage a perfectly good relationship for no reason. So how do you get the proof?

Long ago, I was the victim of an affair. Fortunately I managed to rebuild my life, and am now happily married again, but I remember all too clearly the misery that it caused. The hardest thing was KNOWING he was cheating, but not being able to prove it. You have a slight advantage, because these days there’s a high-tech way of getting the proof you need. It’s called a Reverse Phone Search.

It’s common these days for people having affairs to communicate via mobile phones. One of the things you may notice is that your man is using his mobile more, and is paranoid about you answering it, or reading any text messages. I’ll be honest and say now that the hardest thing will be to get access to his phone. This may take time, and you’ll need to be patient, but when you get the opportunity, note down any unknown numbers that he’s been sending and receiving calls and texts to. Once you’ve done this, you use a Reverse Phone Search website.

These websites are really easy to use. You simply put the number you want to find out about in a box, hit the “Search” button, and in seconds you’ll have access to the name and address of the person who owns the number! Simple as that. With that information, you can either prove that your man is cheating, or put your mind at rest by finding out that his calls and texts are in fact innocent.

OK, you’re asking? How do I do it? Where do I find a reverse phone search website? The one I recommend is here: Reverse Phone Search. Just put the unknown number into the search box, and click the search button. Within seconds, you should find out if the number you need is available!

What to Do If You Feel Like He’s Cheating

I sometimes get emails from women who are starting to suspect that their husbands or boyfriends are cheating.  They aren’t sure how to proceed.  They often wonder whether they should ask or admit to their suspicions or if they should just watch and wait for awhile.  And, they want to know what they should be doing if they decide not to confront him right away.  Or, if they do chose to confront him, how should they do it? What should they say?  I’ll address these questions in the following article.

Why I Recommend Waiting To Confront Him About Your Suspicions That He’s Cheating:  As you can probably tell, I recommend watching and waiting for a bit.  This recommendation comes from both personal experience and from seeing this scenario with my readers so many times.  You are usually going to be in a much better position if you don’t place your cards on the table too early.  This is a very serious accusation and before you actually say it, you should make sure that you are right about it.  Your relationship could be seriously damaged if you start making accusations that are just plain wrong.

What if he’s not cheating? How bad will this make you look? And, let’s say that he is cheating but you don’t yet have any proof.  Do you think he’s going to admit it if he doesn’t have to?  From my observations, this is very unlikely. It’s more likely that he will deny everything and then proceed to do a better job of what he’s already been doing.  He’ll be more careful and leave less clues so that actually obtaining the proof is just that much harder for you.

Watching And Waiting The Right Way:  If you’ve decided to bide your time, approach this in a very systematic and logical way. First, ask yourself why you think he may be cheating.  Pinpoint exactly those things that are the source of your suspicions.  Many women are just too vague in this step.  They’ll say things like: “well, it’s just a feeling that I have,” or “he is just acting weird and different around me.”  These things may well be true, but they aren’t specific enough to allow you to follow up on them.   You want to take these off feelings and then follow them up.  On the days that you notice him acting weird, are there any weird numbers or texts on his cell phone?  Was he gone longer than he was supposed to be or not where he said he was?” 

The real key is turn your suspicion that you can’t yet quantify into something very specific on which you can follow up.  Check his cell phone, his car, his computer, his work space, and any drawers that have keys, etc.  Of course, you want to do this when he isn’t around.  The phone often is challenging because most people have this on them most of the time. But, he has to sleep.  He has to shower.  They are usually short pockets of time where you can access to this to check out the call logs, in box, and photos.

People often ask me how are they supposed to act like everything is normal when it very much isn’t.  I often hear things like “so I’m just supposed to continue to be affectionate to him like nothing is wrong when I know that he’s probably lying to me?”  I know that this is difficult. I often recommend that you come up with a distraction or issue that you can use to excuse your distance.  You have a project due at work.  You’re under a lot of stress at school.  You have some extended family issue that needs your attention right now.  You have a cold.  Use whatever works to explain why you’re not acting the way that you typically would.

How To Confront Him About Your Cheating Suspicions: First, I can’t stress enough how much you should have all of your proof lined up when you go to do this.  Just having feelings or seeing weird phone numbers isn’t going to be enough to get an admission out of him.  Follow up the weird phone numbers with reverse look up.  If he’s deleted everything, get the software that will bring it back.  The same is true of his computer.  There are programs that will show you all the screens and activity on that computer or phone so that you can read everything as it took place.  Once you’ve done your homework, the picture should become crystal clear.

Of course, if all this snooping shows that he hasn’t been cheating, then you and he are both in the clear.  Luckily, he will never need to know what you suspected and your relationship has not been damaged.  But, if you do find out that your fears are true, then you will have to decide how to approach this.  Always make yourself look like you gave him the benefit of the doubt.  Tell him that you followed up on your suspicions because you were looking for confirmation that they weren’t true and you didn’t want to insult him with suspicions that you knew would be turn out to be wrong.  But, imagine your surprise and disappointment when you found out that you were wrong. 

He’ll usually take it from there.  Some men will be so blatant as to continue to deny it and some won’t continue to insult your intelligence when the proof is right in front of them.  At this point, you’ll need to decide where you want to go from here, but at least now you have all of the information that you need to make that decision.

I was in this same situation a short time ago. I tried to confront my husband too soon, before I had proof, and of course he denied everything. I tried to believe him, but the doubts remained. I decided that I really wanted to know the truth, no matter what that truth was. I learned how to get concrete information and proof that my husband thought that he had hid and erased. Once I presented this to him, he had no choice but to come clean. You can read my very personal story at http://catch-the-cheating.com/

If My Husband is Lying, Does That Mean He’s Cheating Too?

The other day, I received an email from a wife who said she had either caught her husband in, or suspected him of, “several little white lies.”  Examples were that he told her that he was at work, but when she called, the receptionist said he wasn’t there.  He told her that he was with a friend and coworker, but when she mentioned this outing to the co worker’s wife, she only got a blank stare. There were other things that didn’t add up, as well as omissions and slip ups that just didn’t make any sense.  She had the suspicion that these lies were pointing to something else – namely, cheating. She wanted to know if a man’s lying is an indication that he was also cheating, or is a lie sometimes just a lie? I’ll address this in the following article.

The Rare Occasions When Lying Is Innocent: There are some rare occasions when your partner will lie to you for what they think is your own good. An example is if they are saying they are at work and are planning a surprise for you.  Or, they say that are at work because they don’t want you to know that they’ve lost their job. However, these things will become apparent soon enough and they often are not paired with lies that stretch on for a certain period of time or other odd behaviors. And often, the feeling that you get from this type of “little white lie” is quite different than the alarm bells that are going off in your head when something truly is wrong.

When He’s Making A Habit Out Of Lying: Repetitive lying doesn’t necessarily always mean cheating, but it is laying a foundation that never leads to good and healthy things.  A man who makes a habit out of lying or who becomes so good at it that this behavior becomes second nature to him is someone that you should keep an eye on.  Sure, it may be totally innocent, but you have to look at it as, at best, as a way that he is distancing himself from and deceiving you (even if that is not his conscious intention.)  Neither of these things are behaviors that you want in your marriage.  I’m often asked if you should confront him about this.  My answer is often that you shouldn’t until you have more information.  First off, you don’t want to be wrong.  And second, you don’t want to go in unprepared.

When Lies, Actions, And Feelings Point To Cheating: Often, it’s not only his lies that are giving you a bad vibe.  You’ll also notice a distance between you.  He may start to be critical or negative. He may not give you as much of his attention and time.  In short, he is simply somewhere else.  So, it’s often not just the lies that worry you.  It’s the lies mixed in with the totality of the situation.  It just feels off.  This is often when most people tune into the fact that something is potentially quite wrong.  And it’s at this point that you will have to make a decision as to whether you want to pursue this until you find out the truth or if you want to hope for the best and just pray that you are wrong.

Because often, your husband is not going to come out and admit what has been going on.  He’s been able to lie all along so it is highly unlikely that he is going to suddenly come out with the truth. He’ll often try to turn things around on you or to tell you that you’re being overly paranoid or too emotional.

How To Find Out If His Lying Means He’s Also Cheating: The easiest way to follow up is to simply go down the road that his lies take you.  If you catch him saying he’s working late but isn’t, then your goal should be to find out where he really is and why he is lying about it.  There are many ways to start to achieve this.  Often you will find your first clues and his cell phone or computer.  This is an easy way to check up without him knowing that you are doing so and without appearing to be the one who is over reaching.

You can see everything that has been happening on his computer with relatively inexpensive and hard to track software. You can run a reverse look up on his phone so that you will know exactly who he has been talking to and texting and you can easily follow up and dig this down.  This way, you will have the information yourself without having to depend on him to give it to you, since he’s been lying to you all along anyway.  Sometimes, it turns out that he’s not cheating and sometimes he is, but at least you will have the luxury of knowing without dealing with the torment of having to guess if you’re being cheated on as well as lied to. 

I was in this same situation a short time ago. I tried to confront my husband too soon, before I had proof, and of course he denied everything. I tried to believe him, but the doubts remained. I decided that I really wanted to know the truth, no matter what that truth was. I learned how to get concrete information and proof that my husband thought that he had hid and erased. Once I presented this to him, he had no choice but to come clean. You can read my very personal story at http://catch-the-cheating.com/.

Signs of a Cheating Boyfriend – How to Tell If He’s Cheating on You

There are many signs that give away a cheating boyfriend. Do you know how easy it is to spot the certain signs of cheating boyfriend but at the same time how easy it is to miss the most obvious ones? 

Men cheat. Or at least, many do. They try to excuse their behavior with strange theories about genetic facts or evolution and the urge to reproduce. But do we have to tolerate cheating men? 

Here are the top 10 signs of cheating boyfriend you can use to decide if your mate is faithful to you or if he might be a cheater.

Here are the top 10 signs of cheating boyfriend

His phone rings but he does not answer it.
He stops complimenting you on your looks and asks you to change the way you dress or wants you to change your hair color.
He asks rhetorically what is considered ‘cheating’ or if one person can be in love with more then one other person at the same time.
He changes the way he dresses. He pays more attention to his appearance and starts using cologne more frequently. 
He deletes the history of calls on his cell phone and emails and messenger logs on his computer.
He does not want you to use his computer account or his cell phone.
He makes plans without consulting you, spends less time with you and goes out with ‘friends’ more often than he used to.
You see him showering at odd times.
Your mutual friends start acting strangely toward you or his co-workers are uncomfortable around you. 
Your intuition. If your instinct tells you that something is not right, probably there is.

If your boyfriend displays one or more of these signs of cheating boyfriend, even if he is not necessarily cheating on you, no matter which way you look at it, there are serious problems in your relationship. Be it trust issues or lack of interest, the fact that your gut feeling tells you that your boyfriend might be cheating on you, whether true or not, is a severe warning sign that your relationship is in dire need of some attention. 

But above everything else you need to be certain if your boyfriend is faithful to you or if he’s cheating – you deserve to know!

Are you convinced something is up but cannot find any concrete proof? Sick of the gnawing suspicions every time you look at him? Your uncertainty could end today – IF and ONLY if you are ready to find out the truth! If you want a foolproof way to investigate and prove guilt or innocence then click below to find out more.

Ways To Tell He’s Cheating

Suspecting that your boyfriend or husband is cheating is often a catch 22.  You sometimes badly want to be wrong, especially at first.  You tell yourself that you’re just under stress and are over reacting or are seeing things that just aren’t really there.  After a while though, some women progress to a point where they know in their heart that he’s cheating (and even begin to collect the proof), and yet he has the audacity to continue to deny it.  These women sometimes actually want to be right because they are tired of being disrespected and dismissed in this way. The resentment and frustration has built up so much that they just want to get the answer and  to then deal with the results that follow.  Whatever category you’re in, the following article will tell you some of the best ways to tell that he’s cheating and to remove all of the frustrating doubt.

Start With The Clues That Are Right In Front Of You And Take Them As The Total Of Pieces That Make Up A Whole: Often, it’s not one little thing that tips you off.  It isn’t the occasional unknown numbers / texts on the cell phone or the bailing out on you once or twice.  These things happen sometimes and are quite plausible. 

If it was just one thing, you could probably dismiss it.  What often really gives you pause is the combination of seemingly small things that just don’t add up.  Coincidence can happen, but not overwhelmingly and suddenly out of nowhere, all at once, over a reoccurring period of time.  Take note if more than a few things raise your red flag. Notice the combination of several things that you can no longer ignore.  Unfortunately, this often happens slowly over time so that by the time you’re at the point where you can no longer turn a blind eye, it’s progressed much longer than you want.

Take A Quick Glance At His Personal Spaces: This one is a little tricky because you don’t want to be caught going through his stuff.  But, when he’s in the shower or away for a bit (where you can actually hear him coming back) check out his car (especially locked glove boxes), his personal junk drawers where you never usually go, his briefcase or backpack, and / or his workspace. 

Many items that point to an affair or cheating are kept in his office (or school) because he assumes that you aren’t going to go there.  And most likely, normally, you aren’t.  But, you can come up with an excuse to drop in and then ask him to go get you a soda or to go get the phone you left in your car while you run to the rest room. (Use your own judgment. Do whatever works.) Once he’s out, look in personal spaces in his office or work space – his junk drawer in his desk, his email, etc.  He will often be a lot less guarded about where he puts things in his work than at home.  Be very careful not to act suspicious. You don’t want to tip him off.  And, if you’ve played this right and he still acts defensive, take notice.

Lower His Defenses And Then Pursue:  If you really know in your heart that he’s cheating, don’t tip him off or tell him about your suspicions until you have enough proof that he can’t wiggle out of it. So, you don’t come right out and ask him. This almost never gets you the response that you want.  I know that you’re hoping that he’ll break down, admit everything, and immediately case all cheating, but it is so rare that this actually happens.

What it usually does is to just make the husband or boyfriend better at hiding it.  So, don’t say anything. Act as though everything is fine. And, if you have already brought it up, drop it for now. Present yourself as though you’re satisfied with the explanations and are giving up the hunt.  Then, come up with a reason why you have to go out of town or are going away with friends for the evening (or longer if you can manage it.) If you can, set it up before hand and talk about it several times, so that when it does occur, it doesn’t come out of left field.

Of course, you’re not really going out of town and you’re not really going out with friends. You’re getting him to let his guard down. Because once he does, he’s going to be very easy to catch during this time period.  He’ll likely either openly have her over or he’ll go to her, or at the very least he will be in touch with her in some way either by phone, text, or email. And, he won’t be as careful about deleting the proof (although if he is, they are ways to get this anyway.)

Use The Technology That Is Available: If you really feel that it is necessary, you can track your man in a number of ways.  You can use phone or car GPS. You can take his cell phone log and copy down the numbers that you don’t recognize. Then, you can use reverse look up to see the address for the number.  You can then take the address and log on to your property appraiser’s office or circuit court website to see who owns that property. (Then, you’ll know where to check when you have your time away.) If he’s deleted the cell phone history, there is software to get it back (even if he’s cleared the cookies or the cache.)

Likewise, you can place a tail on the computer.  Even if he’s opening anonymous email accounts or he thinks he’s deleting every site that he’s been to, there is almost always a blueprint left for quite some time later.

I was in this same situation a short time ago. My heart knew that he was cheating, but my head didn’t want to acknowledge it. After thinking on it for a long time, I decided that I really wanted to know the truth, no matter what that truth was. I learned how to get concrete information and proof that my husband thought that he had hid and erased. Once I presented this to him, he had no choice but to come clean. You can read a very personal story at http://catch-the-cheating.com/

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How Do I Get Proof That He’s Cheating?

I often hear from wives and girlfriends who tell me that they “know” in their hearts that their husband or boyfriend is cheating, but so far, they can’t find any proof. Of course, their husband denies everything and tries to make them think that this is all in their head, so their being unable to come up with concrete proof isn’t helping matters.

I often maintain that the vast majority of the time, the proof is there if you know where to look. Sometimes, people are not as aggressive as they could be about looking because they are hesitant to really look at or know the truth. Other times, they don’t want to be caught. And sometimes, they really are just hoping that they are wrong and wonder that if perhaps they back off, this whole thing might go away.

However, if you really want concrete proof of cheating, you will often find it if you ask yourself how your husband could be carrying out the cheating and then following up accordingly. Think about it. The cheating doesn’t happen in a vacuum. Your husband has to plan, communicate, and then carry this out. This entire process is bound to leave a trace and clues. He can’t physically be with another person in his car, online, or through his phone without there being a trail.

Yes, he can delete his phone or internet history. He can clean out his car. He can try to cover his tracks. But at the end of the day, he can’t erase everything and there is technology and tools that can overcome these obstacles. You really have to take a hard look at the possible tools that he could be using to carry this out and then use your own tools to pick up the trail and uncover the loose ends that are there.

I understand why wives hesitate to have their husbands followed or to follow him themselves. It’s very hard to even consider seeing what you suspect. But you don’t always have to physically follow him on foot (or have him followed) to know what is going on, although this is often an accurate way to learn what’s happening.

Be very observant toward him. Because often, he will get noticeably uncomfortable when you are getting close to a potential tip off or clue. For example, some cheaters don’t want you in their car or don’t want you over their shoulder when they are texting or on the computer. Or, they may tell you that they will wash their own clothes or clean out their own briefcase or car. Maybe they’ll suddenly take a liking to online banking when this has never interested them before.

The point is, whenever you see him becoming uncomfortable or doing something that he hasn’t previously done which gives you pause, this is how you know that you might be getting close to a clue or something that he doesn’t want you noticing or following up on. And, this of course, is precisely where you want to look or follow, if you are sure that you really do want to know if he’s cheating and really do want proof of the same.

I was in this same situation a short time ago. My heart knew that he was cheating, but my head didn’t want to acknowledge it. I told myself there was no real proof. But deep down, I knew I was kidding myself. After thinking on it for a long time, I decided that I really wanted to know the truth, no matter what that truth was. I learned how to get concrete information and proof that my husband thought that he had hid and erased. And I found exactly what I feared. You can read a very personal story at http://catch-the-cheating.com/

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Ways to Tell If He’s Cheating

Suspecting that your boyfriend or husband is cheating is often a catch 22.  You sometimes badly want to be wrong, especially at first.  You tell yourself that you’re just under stress and are over reacting or are seeing things that just aren’t really there.  After a while though, some women progress to a point where they know in their heart that he’s cheating (and even begin to collect the proof), and yet he has the audacity to continue to deny it.  These women sometimes actually want to be right because they are tired of being disrespected and dismissed in this way. The resentment and frustration has built up so much that they just want to get the answer and  to then deal with the results that follow.  Whatever category you’re in, the following article will tell you some of the best ways to tell that he’s cheating and to remove all of the frustrating doubt.

Start With The Clues That Are Right In Front Of You And Take Them As The Total Of Pieces That Make Up A Whole: Often, it’s not one little thing that tips you off.  It isn’t the occasional unknown numbers / texts on the cell phone or the bailing out on you once or twice.  These things happen sometimes and are quite plausible. 

If it was just one thing, you could probably dismiss it.  What often really gives you pause is the combination of seemingly small things that just don’t add up.  Coincidence can happen, but not overwhelmingly and suddenly out of nowhere, all at once, over a reoccurring period of time.  Take note if more than a few things raise your red flag. Notice the combination of several things that you can no longer ignore.  Unfortunately, this often happens slowly over time so that by the time you’re at the point where you can no longer turn a blind eye, it’s progressed much longer than you want.

Take A Quick Glance At His Personal Spaces: This one is a little tricky because you don’t want to be caught going through his stuff.  But, when he’s in the shower or away for a bit (where you can actually hear him coming back) check out his car (especially locked glove boxes), his personal junk drawers where you never usually go, his briefcase or backpack, and / or his workspace. 

Many items that point to an affair or cheating are kept in his office (or school) because he assumes that you aren’t going to go there.  And most likely, normally, you aren’t.  But, you can come up with an excuse to drop in and then ask him to go get you a soda or to go get the phone you left in your car while you run to the rest room. (Use your own judgment. Do whatever works.) Once he’s out, look in personal spaces in his office or work space – his junk drawer in his desk, his email, etc.  He will often be a lot less guarded about where he puts things in his work than at home.  Be very careful not to act suspicious. You don’t want to tip him off.  And, if you’ve played this right and he still acts defensive, take notice.

Lower His Defenses And Then Pursue:  If you really know in your heart that he’s cheating, don’t tip him off or tell him about your suspicions until you have enough proof that he can’t wiggle out of it. So, you don’t come right out and ask him. This almost never gets you the response that you want.  I know that you’re hoping that he’ll break down, admit everything, and immediately case all cheating, but it is so rare that this actually happens.

What it usually does is to just make the husband or boyfriend better at hiding it.  So, don’t say anything. Act as though everything is fine. And, if you have already brought it up, drop it for now. Present yourself as though you’re satisfied with the explanations and are giving up the hunt.  Then, come up with a reason why you have to go out of town or are going away with friends for the evening (or longer if you can manage it.) If you can, set it up before hand and talk about it several times, so that when it does occur, it doesn’t come out of left field.

Of course, you’re not really going out of town and you’re not really going out with friends. You’re getting him to let his guard down. Because once he does, he’s going to be very easy to catch during this time period.  He’ll likely either openly have her over or he’ll go to her, or at the very least he will be in touch with her in some way either by phone, text, or email. And, he won’t be as careful about deleting the proof (although if he is, they are ways to get this anyway.)

Use The Technology That Is Available: If you really feel that it is necessary, you can track your man in a number of ways.  You can use phone or car GPS. You can take his cell phone log and copy down the numbers that you don’t recognize. Then, you can use reverse look up to see the address for the number.  You can then take the address and log on to your property appraiser’s office or circuit court website to see who owns that property. (Then, you’ll know where to check when you have your time away.) If he’s deleted the cell phone history, there is software to get it back (even if he’s cleared the cookies or the cache.)

Likewise, you can place a tail on the computer.  Even if he’s opening anonymous email accounts or he thinks he’s deleting every site that he’s been to, there is almost always a blueprint left for quite some time later.

I was in this same situation a short time ago. My heart knew that he was cheating, but my head didn’t want to acknowledge it. After thinking on it for a long time, I decided that I really wanted to know the truth, no matter what that truth was. I learned how to get concrete information and proof that my husband thought that he had hid and erased. Once I presented this to him, he had no choice but to come clean. You can read my very personal story at http://catch-the-cheating.com/

What to Do When You Suspect He’s Cheating

I get a lot of emails from girlfriends and wives who have the sneaking suspicion that their husband or boyfriend is being unfaithful.  Perhaps it’s just a feeling that they have.  Maybe their man has exhibited suspect behavior or just doesn’t seem interested anymore.  Maybe they’ve even found some evidence that they think backs up the suspicions that are demanding their attention, (like phone numbers, bills with questionable charges, or unfamiliar items in a husband’s car.) Whatever it is that has made you suspicious, there is typically a right way and a wrong way to handle this, which I will discuss more in the following article.

Ask Yourself What You Really Want:  I know that this suggestion seems to be both self explanatory and based on common sense, but so many people skip this step.  They don’t slow down and stop for a second to determine what their next logical step might be. In short, they don’t think about what they ultimately  want to accomplish.  Some people want to be reassured that they are wrong.  Some people want their husband’s or boyfriend’s confession, apology, and reassurance.  Others just want to know the truth so that they can break away in a healthy way. Some just want the suspect behavior to stop so that the suspicions also stop.

It’s important to know what you want you ultimately want because your criteria and agenda (which can be hard to admit, even to yourself) is going to very much affect how you interpret and receive any information that you obtain or receive.  In other words, it’s going to slant any perceptions or reactions that you may have and this may or may not be in your best interest.

How Much Information Do You Really Want To Give Him?:  Speaking of your own best interest, think for a second about if you really want to show your deck of cards.  Sure, you want an immediate answer.  You want for this doubt and insecurity to go away immediately.  But, if you fire off questions and accusations, you’re only giving him a heads up (if he’s truly cheating.) At best, you’re wrong and you look like an insecure person who is over reaching.  You look silly and over zealous.  If you’re right, you’ve just told him how to cheat on you even better.  You’ve told him exactly which clues tipped you off, so you can rest assured that he’s going to do a better job the next time.

It’s very unlikely that he’s going to say something like: “OK, you caught me.  I can’t deny it.  You’re absolutely right and I will put a stop to this immediately and I will then begin making it up to you right away.”  This doesn’t happen at first.  Most men will continue to deny everything and to insinuate that you’re only being clingy, while others may even try to turn your suspicions around back onto you. (For example, he might say: “maybe you’re the one who’s cheating.”)

Think About What’s Leading You To Your Suspicions And Follow Up Until You Find Proof Of The Cheating:  The best thing that you can do right now is to wait to take action until you can first be calm enough to come up with a workable plan.  Second, once you are calm, sit down and make a list of all of the things that are pointing to his cheating.  Once you have the list, you’ll want to check these things out one by one.

For example, if he’s on the phone a lot and seems very secretive, get a hold of his cell phone, take note of any strange numbers, and then run them through a reverse look up.  Once you have a name, use the public records to find an address.  (Most of these are online.  Examples are court records, the property appraiser’s office, directory assistance plus, etc.)

Or, if you notice him on the computer late at night, there is simple, undetectable and inexpensive software that can show you every screen that has been on that computer for whatever time frame you put into it.  This means that it will show you all chats, all IMs, all emails, all web history, etc. without your needing any information or passwords.

If you notice him going out a lot, you can take it a step further and can put a GPS tracker on the bottom of his car that will tell you exactly where he is going and where he has been.  However, I always suggest starting with the easiest and most obvious thing first because this will often yield enough results to point you in the right direction.

Hopefully, I’ve shown you that it’s smart to wait until you can investigate your suspicions of cheating before you confront him. This way, if you’re wrong, only you need to know of your mistake.  But if you’re right, you’ll have the proof that you need so that he can no longer continue to lie to you.

I was in this same situation a short time ago. I tried to confront my husband with my suspicions of his cheating, but he would never admit it. I tried to believe him, but the doubts remained. I decided that I really wanted to know the truth, no matter what that truth was. I learned how to get concrete information and proof that my husband thought that he had hid and erased. Once I presented this to him, he had no choice but to come clean. You can read my very personal story at http://catch-the-cheating.com/

Cheating Boyfriend – Can It Be Any More Conspicuous He’s Cheating?

Are you able to make a decision on whether or not you’re boyfriend is being unfaithful? If you think about it, it really is quite simple a job, only a matter of time really. It is really all in the very small details and also just how easily you’ll be able to spot a cheating boyfriend.

Undoubtedly after a while, you will begin to observe changes in your boyfriend and as i pointed out earlier, it’s the small detail that will betray him. But i suppose the big concern for you is, do you confront him about it, or maybe bury your head in the sand and hope it goes away?

Regrettably there is not any easy answer and no wrong response either, only you know the relationship which exists relating to both you and your boyfriend. However putting that to one side for the time being, let us look at a handful of the most obvious indicators of a cheating boyfriend.

I guess an obvious initial warning sign is one whereby he is spending more and more time away from you. Maybe he’s spending a lot of his time with people you may not know and is also reluctant to speak with you about them.

His cell phone bill is probably beginning to spike more than ever before. But it could be there’s a reason for this, so be certain of your respective facts before you confront him. However should you suspect something, specially notice should there be an increase in texting.

Do you have a mutual bank account? Is he being crafty by withdrawing money without your notification? Any kind of sudden with drawl could mean something is going on, so it may be wise to ask him about it from the off.

A last obvious indicator is the extensive manner in which he covers his tracks on his computer. Removing the history within his internet browser could be one such method of doing this. Maybe you share a laptop with him, has he been playing about with passwords? Does it appear to you that he’s covering up something? Again it would be a good idea to face him about this, but without asking in an accusing manner.

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Having suffered many relationship set backs, i decided to seek help from many experts, professional and non professional.
While i am now in a relationship that does has it’s ups and downs, i am more equipped to cope with any aspect or situation that comes along.
If you are having trouble with your relationship, don’t be afraid to seek advice, who knows one day you might be writing articles on the subject just like me.