What would you do if you knew that it only takes 3 easy steps for you to have a stronger marriage than ever after cheating? Would you be willing to take three small steps for the sake of saving your marriage? How much are you willing to work to make things work after you’ve been caught cheating?
Keep these three super easy steps in mind as you work to have a stronger marriage than ever after cheating and you’ll be well on your way to the fairy tale ending you always thought your wedding would lead to.
1) Stop finding fault. This is a two-edged sword. Not only do you need to stop finding fault in your spouse but also you must stop finding fault in yourself. When you dwell on the negative (in yourself and others) that tends to be all you see. Instead of focusing on the negative, it’s time to accentuate the positive. The more time you spend looking for the good in yourself and others, the less time you will have left over for finding fault or looking for the negatives. It’s beautiful how wonderfully this works to save marriages from all kinds of pitfalls, speed bumps, and road blocks – even a cheating spouse.
2) Offer compliments gladly. The more you point out the good things you see in your spouse and the wonderful things he or she does for you, the harder your spouse is going to try to make you happy and earn your praise. It really is wonderful how well that works. When you show your appreciation for the little things, the big things become easier and easier to receive from your spouse. Also the more little things you do to make your spouse happy the greater the return on your overall investment is going to be in happiness coming your way.
3) Learn to choose your battles. Not all fights are worth participating in. This doesn’t mean that you need to become the King or Queen of passive-aggressive attitudes. It does mean that you need to learn which fights are the important fights (those from which you can get results) and which fights might be best left unfinished or even sacrificing the win to the spouse who loves you so much. Fighting every fight to the death only leads to the death of your marriage and bigger problems than cheating for your marriage. If you want to have a stronger marriage than ever after cheating, you’re going to have to learn to let some fights go.
Sometimes you may wait just a little too late and you’ll find yourself faced with the dilemma of how to get your ex back before you can move on to focus on saving your marriage or making it stronger.
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