If you are in a relationship, have been in a relationship or know someone in a relationship then you know that people cheat. Cheaters now have a new playground, the world of the Internet. Romance can be found easily on the Internet, but how do you know if your lover is cheating on you through the Internet? Learn the warning signs here.
Cheating is commonly played up on TV and in movies to the point that couples are almost programmed to cheat. It is glamorized on the big screen and is overlooked by society. Yet with all of the tools and instructions on how to cheat, how can someone protect themselves from the break up that is almost sure to be the outcome of a cheating partner?
If you know that your partner is cheating for sure, it is best to find out why the cheating is occurring and correct the problem. It would be better than finding out years down the road when it is too late to save the relationship. Let us take a look at how cheaters use the Internet to find romance.
One way that cheaters find romance is through very popular social networking websites such Facebook, MySpace, etc. These websites have become increasing popular and give cheaters an opportunity that was not had just a few years ago. These websites can be used for good purposes as well. Just because your partner is using social networking sites does not mean that he or she is cheating on you.
He or she may be connecting with old friends, acquaintances, making new friends or conducting business with their online friends. One sign something may be going on is if you cannot see your partner’s profile or there is a lot of communications between your partner and an old girlfriend, boyfriend or ex.
Dating websites are used for exactly what they imply, to get a date or romantic partner. If your partner is using a dating website, then there may be a real problem. These type websites can be used for an actual meet-up between your cheating partner and a new romance. This is when “just the thought of an affair” turns into “a real affair.” If you find out that your partner is using a dating website, then be aware that your partner is probably cheating or planning to cheat on you soon.
Catching an online cheater
Even though the Internet makes it easier to cheat, it also makes it easier to catch him or her. To start, check your computer’s Internet history.
In Firefox, the history can be found at the top under the “History” link and then click the “All History” link. In Internet Explorer, it can be found by clicking the “Blue Dropdown Arrow” beside the address bar and then click the “History” link. This shows the websites that have been visited in the past few days. Be suspicious if you see several dating or romantic meet-up type websites.
There are also key logger programs that can be installed on the computer. This type of program captures each word that is typed on the computer keyboard. If you suspect that your partner is using email, IM or a chat room to communicate with a romantic partner then this program would show you exactly what your cheating partner is typing.
The last resort is to be direct in your approach. If your partner seems to be acting secretive when using the computer, ask to see what they are doing. If they seem hesitant to do so, then ask to use the computer for a quick minute and look at the Internet history immediately. This will give you an idea of what your partner has been looking at before he or she has had time to erase it to cover their tracks.
This is just a few tips to help catch a cheating partner. You can learn more and know for sure if your partner is cheating or not and help save your relationship at To Catch A Cheating Partner. Receive a free report at http://ToCatchACheating.com