The lies that cheaters tell are often very creative and could almost be made into a movie. They concoct endless tales to cover their every move and often have to tell a lie to cover another lie. By becoming aware of the type of lies told by someone that is cheating on their partner makes it easier to recognize the telltale signs.
– Lie #1 – I have been too busy
The most obvious lie used to cover up an affair is that your partner is busy when you two are supposed to be together. If your partner is cheating, it may seem commonplace for him or her not to be available to do things with you. He or she is not busy except spending time with their new fling.
– Lie #2 – I have to work extra
Their excuses can range from having to work over a lot or having to travel out of town unexpectedly. He or she may suggest that they are doing research for a new work project and cannot be disturbed. You may notice your partner’s car having extra miles on it as they go back and forth to see their new love or have to go to farther from home to another city to be together. Your partner may be saying they are working over, but if you can take a look at the mileage on his or her car then you may notice a lot more miles have been driven than just to the work location.
If you call your partner’s work phone instead of their cell phone when he or she is supposed to be working extra and there is no answer or the employer cannot confirm their location, then cheating could be taking place. When you ask why he or she did not answer, there could be another lie told about them being too busy to answer the phone. If this happens repeatedly, then it might be a good idea to check their work location parking lot next time when he or she is supposed to be working over.
– Lie #3 – I do not know where my money went
If you have access to your partner’s bank accounts, you may notice money going for unexplained expenditures. There may be charges to unusual stores where he or she does not normally shop. If you notice hotel rooms or restaurant charges that you have not been to with your partner, then cheating is probably taking place.
You may also notice excessive ATM charges that your partner cannot explain. This money could have been used for wining and dining or showering their new love with gifts.
– Lie #4 – I am Confused
If your partner seems confused at times about their whereabouts or what he or she has told you before, they may have been lying. If he or she has told you a lie before, they might have to tell another lie to cover up the first lie until they get so confused they do not know what they have said. At this point he or she may seem confused, disoriented or afraid to say anything else.
This is just a few tips to help catch a cheating partner. You can learn more and know for sure if your partner is cheating or not and help save your relationship at To Catch A Cheating Partner.