Sadly, many victims of infidelity do not find out they are living with a cheating spouse until years later. This is partly because they would never expect it to happen to them, and they are not really looking for it. Anything that seems off they disregard, and that turns out being the wrong thing to do. If you suspect your spouse is cheating on you, they probably will exhibit some of the following traits.
Lack Of Affection
This probably will be one of the easier things to spot. You have had some time (even years) to gauge the intimacy level of your relationship. A spouse that is cheating on you will have someone else they turn to now – for everything. They will find it very difficult to confide in you and will worry they will slip up and come across as insincere; thus alerting you that something is up.
Work Schedule Adjustments
How many late nights at work do they really have? If there is a sudden need to stay at work late you might want to check deeper. I suggest you call to see how they are doing or even drop in with a surprise treat. You may also notice that your spouse leaves early to get to work – this should have you raising an eyebrow or two. People are creatures of habit and if they have taken the same route to go to work for years, why suddenly are they opting for a new route?
Dressed To Impress (And Other Stuff)
This flame they are drooling over might just have different tastes than you do and this will lead your cheating spouse to re-evaluate their look. This can include a new wardrobe, a change of hair style, the scent of a new cologne/perfume, and they might even go as far as to begin a new exercise regime. All of this in the name of impressing their secret lover. If you notice drastic changes like this, you want to be extra observant and aware.
Do you really want to find out about their cheating years down the road and just pass over these red flags as something you might consider is simply life stress?