It’s often difficult to tell how sorry your cheating husband is over the fact that he cheated. There’s a part of you that may wonder if he’s really sorry at all or if he is simply sorry that he’s been caught with his hand in the cookie jar and has to take a huge step back. You’ll find some men on both sides of the equation and you need to find out where your husband fits on this coin before you decide to take him back.
Your marriage deserves a second chance, as do you, if both of you are willing to make changes and work for a better future together. The truth is that cheating is often a sign of bigger problems in the marriage. There is no denying that.
The problem is that there are some men out there who will cheat regardless of the state of the marriage. Thankfully, these men are the exception rather than the rule. On the downside, these men are common enough that many women believe they are the rule.
How Can You Tell the Difference?
You know your husband better than anyone. Even if you were the last to know (as many women in this situation feel they are), it doesn’t mean that you suddenly have stopped knowing anything at all about your husband.
The odds are good that you suspected something was up, at least on a subconscious level, long before you admitted it to yourself or anyone else. You can still trust your instincts about your husband most of the time and know they will serve you well. Do you believe he’s telling the truth when he says he is sorry?
Can You Change His Heart?
If he isn’t telling you the truth at the moment there is a chance you can change his heart and save your marriage. There are no guarantees but if you don’t try then there is little chance at all of saving your marriage.
Do you believe your marriage is worth the risk? Perhaps the harder question to ask yourself at a time like this is: are you willing to put your heart on the line to take that risk?
You can change his heart and ultimately save your marriage even if he isn’t participating in your efforts just yet. Even if your husband is only sorry that he got caught cheating he can be genuinely sorry that you were hurt by his cheating. There is still hope for the husband who feels this way and the marriage you have together.
Sometimes you just need a little extra nudge in the right direction or even help to get your ex back once you’ve gained a little perspective on the situation.
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