Daily Archives: December 10, 2014

How Do I Get Proof That He’s Cheating?

I often hear from wives and girlfriends who tell me that they “know” in their hearts that their husband or boyfriend is cheating, but so far, they can’t find any proof. Of course, their husband denies everything and tries to make them think that this is all in their head, so their being unable to come up with concrete proof isn’t helping matters.

I often maintain that the vast majority of the time, the proof is there if you know where to look. Sometimes, people are not as aggressive as they could be about looking because they are hesitant to really look at or know the truth. Other times, they don’t want to be caught. And sometimes, they really are just hoping that they are wrong and wonder that if perhaps they back off, this whole thing might go away.

However, if you really want concrete proof of cheating, you will often find it if you ask yourself how your husband could be carrying out the cheating and then following up accordingly. Think about it. The cheating doesn’t happen in a vacuum. Your husband has to plan, communicate, and then carry this out. This entire process is bound to leave a trace and clues. He can’t physically be with another person in his car, online, or through his phone without there being a trail.

Yes, he can delete his phone or internet history. He can clean out his car. He can try to cover his tracks. But at the end of the day, he can’t erase everything and there is technology and tools that can overcome these obstacles. You really have to take a hard look at the possible tools that he could be using to carry this out and then use your own tools to pick up the trail and uncover the loose ends that are there.

I understand why wives hesitate to have their husbands followed or to follow him themselves. It’s very hard to even consider seeing what you suspect. But you don’t always have to physically follow him on foot (or have him followed) to know what is going on, although this is often an accurate way to learn what’s happening.

Be very observant toward him. Because often, he will get noticeably uncomfortable when you are getting close to a potential tip off or clue. For example, some cheaters don’t want you in their car or don’t want you over their shoulder when they are texting or on the computer. Or, they may tell you that they will wash their own clothes or clean out their own briefcase or car. Maybe they’ll suddenly take a liking to online banking when this has never interested them before.

The point is, whenever you see him becoming uncomfortable or doing something that he hasn’t previously done which gives you pause, this is how you know that you might be getting close to a clue or something that he doesn’t want you noticing or following up on. And, this of course, is precisely where you want to look or follow, if you are sure that you really do want to know if he’s cheating and really do want proof of the same.

I was in this same situation a short time ago. My heart knew that he was cheating, but my head didn’t want to acknowledge it. I told myself there was no real proof. But deep down, I knew I was kidding myself. After thinking on it for a long time, I decided that I really wanted to know the truth, no matter what that truth was. I learned how to get concrete information and proof that my husband thought that he had hid and erased. And I found exactly what I feared. You can read a very personal story at http://catch-the-cheating.com/

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Movie – “Lord of War”

I know I’m behind the times, but I read more than I watch movies or TV. A little while ago my daughter and I watched “Lord of War” (2005), which I enjoyed, starring Nicolas Cage as “Yuri Orlov”, who was born in the Ukraine and immigrated to the U.S. with his family. I favor and admire Nicolas Cage, and to me his gentle cynicism and humor come through in every character he’s played. I couldn’t help but like him in this movie, because he was charming and funny.

A sensible person, of course, should not condone Yuri’s career of choice, which is the “world’s leading arms dealer”. He was very smart and vigilant, but eventually was sold out by his wife, though honestly I’d have done the same, and was caught by Interpol. Yuri’s rationale and motivation for his “day job” made sense as far as, in short, if it wasn’t him selling weapons to countries that really shouldn’t be armed, it would be someone else. In other words, there will always be someone, because there will always be war somewhere in the world and a staggering amount of weapons and ammunition lying around just waiting to be sold. For Yuri, a country that decides not to go to war (or civil war) was not delightful news, especially when he already had a weapons shipment on the way. It could also be devastating to his cash flow. Well, as I’ve mentioned, he did get caught, but due to his social status of having pull and being on a first name basis with many “distinguished” people, including high-ranking officers in the U.S. military, and warlords, Interpol had to let him go.

It was sad that Yuri’s younger brother was murdered, though he was a lost soul and an addict. He had too tender a heart and was not cut out to be Yuri’s “partner”. Just before his life ended, he was honorable in trying to stop an arms deal from going through in hopes it would stop the genocide in Sierra Leone, which of course it did not.

Towards the end of the movie, while Yuri was in custody, his wife and son left him, which was inevitable, and his father told him that both his sons were dead. Yuri was now the world’s leading “orphaned” arms dealer, and the statistic that one in every 12 people of our world’s population owns or has a gun was deeply sobering.

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The Easier Cost Effective Way To Get The Ps3 Ylod Fixed

There is a reason why the hardware error for the PS3 is called the Yellow Light of Death. Seeing the yellow light turn into a blinking red light is the most frustrating experience. You smash on all the buttons that you can find to get the console started up but nothing you do seems to work. Most people will just think that their PS3 is done for and that it needs to be replaced. Hold on before you do that because there is a way to revive your system in working order again.

Of course it will be a lot faster to just toss that PS3 in the garbage and go out and buy a new one. Of course this would be an incredibly dumb thing to do as the PS3 ylod is something that can be fixed. Also buying a new console doesn’t mean that you won’t experience the same ylod problem with a new Playstation 3. Unless you have serious money to burn you can’t keep spending the money to by PS3s over and over again.

That’s why gamers are turning to the net to find easy, quick and cost effective solutions for PS3 ylod repairs. In order to decide which option is the best for you, you’ll want to find what may be causing the problem in the first place.

The most frequent cause of the PS3 ylod is caused by overheating which causes damage to internal hardware of the PS3, most notably, the motherboard. Gamers may have noticed that the PS3’s fan sounds louder than normal and will feel hot to the touch. These are indications that a ylod is in the near future. You can take preventive steps if you do see this happening as you can avoid getting the ylod all together.

Just so you know, your PS3 needs to have proper ventilation to work properly and prevent the console from overheating. With many users placing their PS3 flat on the ground or up against something that block the fan vents which is made to cool the PS3 down and prevent overheating. Also many gamers don’t know that you have to clear off the dust so it doesn’t accumulate and block off the vent as well. The air flow is incredible important for keeping the system cool.

Once all the dust is off the PS3 and place in a non obstructed area there are couple of quick things we can try to get the PS3 ylod repaired.

Disconnect the power adapter from the PS3 for about 30 minutes then reconnect it.

Take the Hard Drive out of the PS3 and then put it back in. Check all of the wires of the PS3 and make sure that they are inserted in their respective slots firmly. A good trick is to take the hard drive from someone who you know their PS3 is working. This will tell you very quickly if replacing the hard drive will fix the yellow light of death. Most of the time it is not that simple and the internal hardware of the PS3 is damaged. This gives you two options: Send it to Sony for repairs or learn how to fix the PS3 ylod yourself.

Taking on the task of fixing the PS3 yourself will allow you to enjoy the PS3 much quicker and save a lot of money. There are online programs that offer incredibly detailed videos that go step by step through fixing many of the problems that the PS3 can have in less than an hour. Some will offer extra content that will aid in making your PS3 more efficient once it’s working again.

The only real good reason to bother with paying for the shipping to Sony is if your warranty is still valid and all the repair cost are taken care of. If not than it is much more cost effective and quicker to find a reliable program online with detail instructions to repair the PS3 on your own.

If you don’t want to give 0 to Sony service center or wait for 4~6 weeks to Fix PS3 Yellow Light Of Death. Here is your step by step professional Yellow Red Light Fix guide. Read the PS3 Fix Guide Review for more…