When you cheat on your wife, you aren’t always thinking about the risks or the unintended consequences. There may be a little voice whispering in the back of your mind that this could be trouble for you. Unfortunately, that tiny whisper was drowned out heartily by the bells, whistles, and fog horns of the moment blaring loudly in your ear that this is too good to be true and you should go for it with all you’ve got.
Now that you’ve been caught in the act, so to speak, it’s hard to remember what was so compelling about the moment. You definitely have no idea how you wound up where you are right now. The one thing you do know, without any doubt in your mind at all, is that you do not want this to be how your marriage ends.
You want to bring your wife home for Christmas and I know something that will help you do just that!
The good news for you and your marriage at this particular point in time is that your wife can’t just decide to stop loving you and make it happen over night. She can build walls and harden her heart but she still loves you right now and that’s the best thing you’ve got going for you.
The bad news is that she is quickly building up those walls to protect her heart from being hurt by you again. She is hurting. A lot. But that doesn’t mean she won’t be willing to give you another chance if you offer her the proper incentive.
Of course this doesn’t mean your job of convincing her to come back to you before Christmas is going to be an easy job. But it doesn’t have to be as difficult as you’ve been led to believe.
The worst news you have to deal with is that your wife has lost faith in herself as a result of you cheating on her. Not only are you going to have to overcome the objections she voices against giving you another chance because she doesn’t want to get hurt again but you’re also going to have to overcome a few unspoken objections she’s dealing with about herself.
Your wife has had her confidence shaken. If you’re serious about winning her back fast, there’s only one real way you can do this. Restore her confidence in you, your marriage, and in her at the same time. Sounds like a tall order doesn’t it? But, I believe you can do it because you know your wife so well and love her so very much.
It doesn’t take a Herculean effort to get your wife back by Christmas. A little mistletoe and a few walks down memory lane might help though.
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