Daily Archives: February 9, 2014

3 Powerful Fixes to Mend Your Relationship After She Cheats On You With Another Guy

Unscrupulous Don Juans steal married women with this technique, but you can use it to get your woman back after she leaves you for another guy. Here is what you need to know. 

She broke up with you because she wanted appreciation. 

When a woman doesn’t feel admired, she will leave. She needs to know you care for the things she says and does. You will often hear things like, “He didn’t pay attention to me. I felt lonely. I needed someone to talk to” 

She left you for this other guy because he was new, exciting, and made her feel appreciated.

 So you in turn must become new, exciting, and appreciative of her.

 Here’s how you can do it. 

1. Start “reinventing” yourself. 

Take this time after the breakup not to mope and despair, but to change your way of life. Allow yourself to feel the pain and hurt – that’s necessary to heal. But as well, you need to feed yourself healthy food, exercise well and play your favorite sports, do well in your job, and be happy with your friends. 

Take these things to heart, for they will help you most in your quest to get your woman back after she leaves you for another guy.

 2. Let her be for a bit.

 You need to have a little time away from her so you can get distance on the problem. It is important to have space to heal, and to let our emotions cool. It’s amazing what a little time can do to get people in the right frame of mind to repair their relationship after they’ve had a chance to think.

This is your time to regain your confidence, not to feel despair that you’ve lost her.

That’s the wrong thinking; you can and will get her back if you can become attractive, healthy, and emotionally stable again.

 3. So how do I become emotionally stable and attractive and healthy when my heart’s broken?

 I know you feel despair right now, but I promise you it will get better with each day that goes by. It is so important to get your mind off the pain. There’s a reason they say “time heals all wounds”; it really does.

Do your best to distract yourself in this time of pain. It will help you get more into a frame of mind that is positive and loving – one that will help you to regain your relationship with the woman of your dreams.

Remember: you need to focus on yourself, leave her be for a bit, and then start to become attractive and emotionally stable so that you can re-establish contact with her after the breakup.  

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Making Your Marriage Work After Your Wife Cheats

Is there some age old secret for making your marriage work after your wife cheats? Probably not. In ancient times women led fairly isolated lives and didn’t have as many opportunities to cheat as they seem to have in modern days.

The surprising news is that despite the common perceptions, women today account for nearly 50% of people who claim to have cheated in committed relationships. In the past that has not been the case. Why are the numbers among women cheaters growing so much? In a word: opportunity.

Women today have more freedom than ever before. They also are in positions to be viewed as equal to men more than ever before. Women are even beginning to hold more and more positions of power in the work place over men. This gives women more open and equal access to men than they’ve experienced at any other period throughout history.

What’s the Secret to Making Your Marriage Work after She Cheats?

The secret is, there is no secret. There’s no mystical magical potion you can use to make it all better. It all comes down to a decision. It’s a choice you make to move forward with your marriage and devote your time and energy towards making your marriage work rather than allowing circumstances to tear your marriage apart.

1) Move past the pain. It’s easy to dwell on the hurt and pain you feel after your wife cheats. It’s difficult to move past those things and face a future you feel is uncertain or out of your control. But, you must move past the pain and, yes, the anger too if you are really interested in finding ways to save your marriage. It won’t be easy but few worthy things in life are ever really easy. I’m willing to bet you believe your marriage is definitely worthy of saving.

2) Channel your anger.

It’s OK to be angry at a time like this. Really it is. It isn’t the fact that you feel anger that causes problems in relationships. It’s when you are unable to properly channel that anger that problems arise. You can be angry with the people you love without becoming antagonistic. You can even let them know you’re angry. But you need to find a way to vent that anger so it doesn’t become a stumbling block for your efforts towards making your marriage work.

These are both small steps that yield big results when you’re working on making your marriage work after your wife cheats.

 

 

Sometimes you don’t realize until she’s already gone that you really want to make your marriage work. At times like these the focus must shift to finding out how to get your wife back first and then you can move on to finding ways to make things work out.

 

Sometimes you need a little help getting started. This free video: http://www.magicofmakingup.com gives you step by step instructions to get her back and then to build a better relationship than you’ve ever had before. Watch it now and see for yourself how it can literally save your marriage.