Unscrupulous Don Juans steal married women with this technique, but you can use it to get your woman back after she leaves you for another guy. Here is what you need to know.
She broke up with you because she wanted appreciation.
When a woman doesn’t feel admired, she will leave. She needs to know you care for the things she says and does. You will often hear things like, “He didn’t pay attention to me. I felt lonely. I needed someone to talk to”
She left you for this other guy because he was new, exciting, and made her feel appreciated.
So you in turn must become new, exciting, and appreciative of her.
Here’s how you can do it.
1. Start “reinventing” yourself.
Take this time after the breakup not to mope and despair, but to change your way of life. Allow yourself to feel the pain and hurt – that’s necessary to heal. But as well, you need to feed yourself healthy food, exercise well and play your favorite sports, do well in your job, and be happy with your friends.
Take these things to heart, for they will help you most in your quest to get your woman back after she leaves you for another guy.
2. Let her be for a bit.
You need to have a little time away from her so you can get distance on the problem. It is important to have space to heal, and to let our emotions cool. It’s amazing what a little time can do to get people in the right frame of mind to repair their relationship after they’ve had a chance to think.
This is your time to regain your confidence, not to feel despair that you’ve lost her.
That’s the wrong thinking; you can and will get her back if you can become attractive, healthy, and emotionally stable again.
3. So how do I become emotionally stable and attractive and healthy when my heart’s broken?
I know you feel despair right now, but I promise you it will get better with each day that goes by. It is so important to get your mind off the pain. There’s a reason they say “time heals all wounds”; it really does.
Do your best to distract yourself in this time of pain. It will help you get more into a frame of mind that is positive and loving – one that will help you to regain your relationship with the woman of your dreams.
Remember: you need to focus on yourself, leave her be for a bit, and then start to become attractive and emotionally stable so that you can re-establish contact with her after the breakup.
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